When your child comes home and informs you that he or she wants to play a sport like soccer, it can be great. This means that they will be embarking on a new adventure that will teach them all kinds of wonderful skills they will use throughout the rest of their life. So many things can be learned from joining in on team sports, like strategy, working together with others toward a common goal, organization and how to create lasting friendships.
Of course you will want your kid to have fun and be encouraged to keep going with the sport and there are a few things you can do to help with that. A great deal of their experience with soccer or any other sport will have to do with you, so you want to make sure that you are there to be supportive without going to the extreme of being overbearing. Pay attention to how they are acting; be ready to step back and allow them to attend practices without you if you notice that your presence is distracting them. It may become obvious that you are unintentionally distracting them because they are concerned about what you’ll think of them; don’t take it personally, just let them have some practices where they can concentrate on what they’re doing.
Another thing to think about is how you react to the games or practices that you do watch. Letting your child or their friends see you yelling and swearing at a ref or at the team in general for a bad play will not help anybody.
Most importantly, the goal of children’s sporting events should always be fun. Yelling at a kid because they don’t kick, trap or head the ball correctly will only serve to reduce their own self confidence in their abilities. If they don’t seem to be doing a move properly, the best thing to do is take them aside and demonstrate how it’s done, maybe explain to them why it’s done that way and so on.
If your son or daughter is not kicking, trapping or heading the ball properly, the best thing to do is show them the proper techniques during the next practice, or practice it with them on their own. Sometimes it is enough to just explain to the child why the move is supposed to be done as it is being taught, so they have a clearer understanding of what they need to do.
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